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Thursday, 16 January 2014

# 5. Fear of the unattempted: (Seven types of FEAR that drives success away)

You may have watched old people showing their regressions for the things they knew they should have done when they were young but could not do. Some of them express this when a child speaks to them about their passions. “I had also wished to be a pilot when I was young, but…”, are the formats of their words and their sentences usually end with justifications such as lack of money and support, most of which are lies. 

The major dream killer is the fear of starting to live your dreams. When your dreams remain dreams or have graduated into clearly defined plans, but remain to sit on the paper for years till it becomes too late, those dreams will definitely die their unnatural deaths and then become “ghosts”. 

Because your fear was their killer, their first and last point of attack is you! They keep worrying your mind till you becomes angry at the situations that could not make you unleashed them. The easier way to conquer the fear cause by the undone things is to have them done before it becomes too late.
Never leave your plan unattempted.

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# 4. Fear of causing harm to others: (Seven types of FEAR that drives success away)

This type of fear keeps plans under lock. A person may dream and make plans to execute those dreams, but obsessive thoughts about others may pin him to be static. Some of those thoughts would arise from the common culture of the people. 

Some people do believe that they must all be at equal levels and anyone who tries to progress must be brought low. However, they don’t make any attempt to make progress uniformly.

There are situations where you may be persuaded to become inactive because your success may bring harm to others. If you are too obsessed over how they should feel instead of how you should optimize your talents, you are not going to make it. It is not right you make yourself as equal sinner just because your righteousness will cause harm to the friends you are with. Don’t think of those who are not doing it; you must do it.

Your assignment is different from another person’s own and hence, the negligence attitude of someone must not suppress your passion.

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#3. Fear of shame: (Seven types of FEAR that drives success away)

This is the type of fear that makes it difficult for a person to begin a task or complete it. The person might be concentrating on the consequences of failing more than that of succeeding. 

Due to mockeries they will receive when they are not able to win, most people conclude that it is better not to try than to fail and be mocked. This thought is failure on its own because it kills the passion in you.

There are situations too where nobody is pursuing a dream in life and you beginning to be the only one thinking that far. It is likely for the others to consider you as a mad person because all that you do is not part of their culture. 

You may end up changing your association if you want to win, or give away your premature success because of the fear of shame.
Shame is a product of low self-esteem, a bad attitude that would only make you to avoid taking up the challenge and dare!

Read the full article with all the "Seven (7) types of fear that drives success away" by clicking here...
http://israeliveonline.wordpress.com/2013/08/28/7-types-of-fears-that-drive-success-away/

Shalom and Peace to you!

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#2. Fear of Failing: (Seven types of FEAR that drives success away)

Most people do not succeed in what they were really meant to do because of the fear of failing. When most people see someone failed in a venture before, it becomes their taboo to also attempt it. However, that should not be the priority. One must be convinced about what he or she wants to do before he or she sets out to begin. If you are convinced, you will not quit.
Success comes after action and every action is a risk. Risks may or may not mature to become success. When it happen that your first attempt failed, you should not use that as a criteria to throw your premature success away. Most global achievers had faced instances that some would give up to if they were those representing. Similarly, many tasks on the earth today have never come into celebration because the initiator met obstacles that they yielded to.
It is better to try and fail than not to try at all. Never let the fear of failure stop you.

Read the full article with all the "Seven (7) types of fear that drives success away" by clicking here...

http://israeliveonline.wordpress.com/2013/08/28/7-types-of-fears-that-drive-success-away/

Shalom and Peace to you!

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#1. Fear of Starting:(Seven types of FEAR that drives success away)

Most people cannot start living their true dreams because of this fear and this means as long as that fear is not dealt with; they will remain dreamers but not dream workers. They express their fears in statements like; “I am not sure this will succeed”, “what if it couldn’t work?”, “my master will be angry”, “I am not yet qualified” etc. That is a real fear. In the parable of talents, Jesus Christ taught about how fear makes a person not to use his or her talents.

In that parable, all the people who were given talents made the best use of them except this man who confessed; “….I was afraid and went and hid your talent in the ground…” Matthew 25v25. Can you see the fear in this man? His feared to optimize the talents his master gave him because he was afraid of the circumstances he would find himself in if he could not make interests on his talents because his master was a “strict master”.

This was truly “a false impression appearing real” in his mind.

Read the full article with all the "Seven (7) types of fear that drives success away" by clicking here...

http://israeliveonline.wordpress.com/2013/08/28/7-types-of-fears-that-drive-success-away/

Shalom and Peace to you!

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Your fears FEAR YOU!

Fear keep us static because of one reason; “our ignorance”. The fact is that “fear” itself fears us, but you may not know. It’s like a sheep in the wolf’s cloth and it will take your ignorance for it to drive you away. 

Take a time to study the anatomy of your fear and you will realize that it is like a wall without foundations which a slight blow can demolish.
Ignorance becomes the linguist that keeps whispering to let you know that you can’t move out of that wall because it is strong. Never give up when you hear those terrifying voices telling you not to move on. 

Don't listen to friends who are brave at packaging fear for you in their deceptive communications. They may come in words like; "after all, everyone tried it before, but it could not work". Everyone tried, and so what? You are not "everyone"; you are you and you got to believe that promptly!
People who attempt proving to you that "you can't make it" are the same people who will say "oh yes, we know you could do it". 

Stays connected to your dreams and remember, YOUR FEARS ARE AFRAID OF YOUR PASSION. Any time you prove to them that you are afraid of them, it is then that the gather the vim to destroy your dreams.
Kill the fears now; your passion is your weapon!

#UcanDoIt. Great day!



Grow up, Move up!

It's when the seed grows up that it is known as the tree. Nobody calls the "seedlings" as "trees" and no seedling is even useful because it doesn't produce fruits!

No matter how potent your talents are, they remain to be out of use until you take time to develop them to their optimum level. This calls for preparation. Through preparation, personal branding, consistent exposure and productive connections, you set up a condition for your dreams to flourish and bear fruits!

People who go to exploit their talents after no or inadequate preparation only end up producing a little. That tells why you may plant the same variety of seeds on different lands and they grow and come out with different levels of sweetness! The condition is that every land had it's own level of preparation and that is the secret of the sweetness or bitterness of the fruits!

You cannot eat the fruits unless you climb up a little more. The fruits are on top and you got to go up to pluck it there. Don't stop learning; keep growing, keep going!

Nothing comes as an accomplishment instantly. Success does not come overnight. Patience is the key! Grow up and be the tree; but remember it takes dry and wet seasons to become a fruit bearer, achiever and impact maker!

Your potentials are called "potentials" because they are "potent". Don't make them impotent by your impatience!

God is there for you!

#UcanDoIt. Great day!