You either become the pepper on someone's eyes, or you become the salt on his tongue. It all depends on what you are thinking about him in your mind.
The attitudes of oppressive people do not leave any positive impact in the life of others; but the true life of impressive people does it.
What you should bear in mind is that God may have passed someone's gifts to him/her through you. If you have the bitter attitude of pepper, the gift is delayed in your traffic and God may not use you as a channel any longer.
Love everyone, create an impact in their lives, put smiles on the face of everyone, rejoice freely, and change the tears of people into joy!
Don't become a source of harm to others. You were made for a positive influence!