"If you don't design your life plan, chances are that, you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they planned for you? Not much". -Jim Rohn
You can't use the map of the direction of someone's destination to reach your destination. What if he is on the way to the hospital and you are on the way to the market? You use your own plans to reach your destination.
The best word to describe the future of someone who put his life in the plan of another person is "loss". When you find yourself on the way to school while you think of going to Church, you are in a "loss" indeed. Plan your own life and let it be directed by the Holy Spirit of God.
Dependency on your life plan does not mean you neglect the help of others. You put in your plans those you think are willing to help you; but you don't leave the chance for them to plan your life for you!
God's plan for you is to prosper you; your plans must therefore be free to lead your into prosperity so that it can be compatible with the will of God for you. Any plan you make that is aimed at destroying your physical, emotional, spiritual and general social value is not godly! Godly plans are those that can make you prosperous!