Love is different from Trust. You can trust only morally secured people, but you must love even the unsecured. Imagine your school driver was drunk with alcohol and on the way with a load of school children. All of a sudden he mistakenly drove the bus out of the way to the gutter and everybody die except you!
Later, this bus driver joins your church, repented and asked for forgiveness from parents whose relatives died due to his negligence. Must they forgive him? Absolutely yes! That is Love!
Imagine, this man immediately decided to be the Church bus driver. Must they trust him? Absolutely no! Not immediately!
People appear clean until you hear them speak. You must not rush to judge people by the colour of their apologies, but by the content of their transformation!
Never hate people as a result of the gravity of their offences; Christ said forgive and you must do so. However you watch and don't put your trust on offensive people immediately...
Live life sooooo well !!!