You are your own canoe and you are your own paddle, so paddle your own canoe. Society had taught us to give away our power and abilities! It is not fair!
Majority of people conditioned their minds that someone has to step in to solve their problems and fix back their broken lives. Inasmuch as you need people to climb up, walk with and seek help from, it doesn't mean they have to think for you; you do the thinking by your own mind!
You and only you will appreciate the power of imagination God gave to you! You are your own compass; I can't, your spouse can't, your parents can't, your siblings can't, your government can't! Even in most case, God takes your acceptance into consideration. That is why he can make "stones" to praise him if humans will not accept him!
Decide now to take responsibility and re-charge your life with a good image about yourself. Re-kindle that hope and sense of usefulness by which no obstacles can succeed in stopping you! You can do it! Yes you can!